Get out of the hole you Are in and go live your life. BULL$%^#. I guess. I give and receive love by thinking and talking deeply about our hearts, spirits, and souls. And it seems like you have no answer for me, just like everyone else. Take a step back and consider modern behaviour in adults today: A spoiled generation who care little about everything from environmental destruction to the well-being of their own children. So here goes. I know it’s not what people want to hear, but do you believe that Jesus is our God? I feel like an outcast and that no one really cares at all. Because of this, it can be very difficult to notice that this voice has seeped in and even harder to peel away its sadistic coaching from our true perceptions. I have a new friend now, thin as air, I named her Radzi, who sits across the table from me and listens to me. Elizabeth, that is called verbal abuse. John You’ve got some great insight there buddy. I’m tired of being hurt all the time whenever I try to interact with people. Has anybody seen her?” while I ask all the time when a person is missing, whether I like them or not. I find myself interesting, am traveled and educated, not harsh to the eye and am witty and have to laugh alone. If its not us, then it must be them because its awful and its really happening. I have a heck of a time connecting with people. I’m stuck. No one likes me.” Then next to these voices, write down the thoughts as “you” statements. I’m literally crying reading posts that so many people have been told “nobody likes you”. It mean that u are the best and nobody want Im 43 years old and the saga continues. I feel for you , the only thing my family value about me , is that they got rid of me . I am chucking that inner voice out the door….go away satan cause me i am awsome! Have I done wrong yes but I’m the only one getting punished. One for a free babysitter, and one so they could get gas money from me. I do love myself a lot. Perhaps it is for the better. Since I’ve tried befriending a lot of people, I’ve come to realize that they just talk bad stuff behind their each others’ backs, that they’re rude and even kind of hypocritical, but they have lots of friends. He calls me once maybe twice a year and it makes me wonder how does now your dad do this to you! Lucie, I could have written this myself. I am not alone i never thought other feel this way too. Because of this i feel soo lonely, unwanted and useless. So many areas of this article and comments rang true for me. Nobody loves me Everybody hates me Going to the garden to eat worms Long thin slimy ones Short fat juicy ones Gooey, gooey, gooey, gooey, worms Long thin slimy ones slip down easily Short fat juicy ones stick Short fat juicy ones stick between your teeth And the juice goes slurp, slurp, slurp [*Thanks to dhmaloney456 for correcting these lyrics] No amount of counseling will fix this. Now I feel a tug of war.. That’s not a feeling, that’s an empirical fact. He can tell there’s something wrong with you.” When a friend doesn’t text us back right away, it says, “I wonder what she’s thinking. It’s not an easy task, but once you find the right people it’s smoother sailing. I’ve received talking therapy counselling, but to me, that’s all it seems to be. Thanks for sharing . You’re nobody until someone wants you. I know exactly how this feels. I’m no expert, but with your brains and accomplishments, I’m afraid people are simply intimidated by your mere existence. When I was younger I was so confident and had nothing but friends but now in my 30’s a lot of that have changed. But the second you stick up for yourself, they become angry, hateful and are quick to turn the tables on you to find reasons or excuses to blame you for they way THEY act. What we think and feel really matters , I often end up hearing problems and I really care and give attention but when I need some human interaction it’s just not available. As hard as it may be the truth of the matter is that you don’t get on your own nerves at least i know i don’t but people can really make you stumble. My first marriage was one you described. I would say that your greatness is hard for the average person to be around, and, although unintentional, you surface their deepest insecurities. I enjoy my work and hobbies and I like to study and learn. If someone is experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, loneliness or social isolation, it can be extremely beneficial to seek therapy. I can’t tell you not to let it affect you, because it will, and it has! Thank you psychalive… I had lost all hope recently but this article gave me new hope to live. Radzi seems to know how I feel and doesn’t dispute it. Even demons gotta sleep.”, Step Four: Think about how your voices affect your actions. My depression medicine has increased and I was prescribed an anti anxiety pill cause I didn’t seem to be sleeping very good. Good luck and much love. I have two children I love more than life who are either to wrapped up in their own life or just do not love me to give me a quick text or call for months. but these awfull negative constant thoughts of inadequatecy are echoed in my brain on a regular basis. And there were a ton of busts before I noticed any success. They were absolutely right, no one liked me. 30 customer ratings. I don’t know what is wrong with me either. I smile at everyone and I go into situations feeling positive and confident- not overly- yet no one includes me in anything. Jane…you are an awesome person! They will get worse. I feel like I can’t control myself, I feel like I can’t get help without the fear of being heavily judged, or laughed at. I have no clue who are you or where do you come from or what qualities you have… This person immediately got up and moved away from me. Why are you sad Misster? then they are complaining about me to someone else not to my face am I really that bad. This nobody likes me thing and the sharing gives some insight. And that makes me feel stupid. I look myself in the mirror and cry and encourage myself that I’ll be fine. Now she can leave forever, but Nobody vows to stay away because Beatice is gone and he is angry. You’re right, this article is addresses people struggling with the demons that lower self esteem and loneliness rather than finding people who can tolerate/like/enjoy our company. No one is “un-likable.” I assure you that. Get educated and get out. I’m just not sure why. I’m tired of wasting my energy on people who clearly don’t deserve it. I have very few friends and am becoming so lonely I just wish life would hurry up and end. Once in a while i feel good for no reason, and i just accept it and savor those moments. It’s not like having an engaging personality and everyone wanting to be my friend but it’s a lifestyle I can live with. Sometimes I think it’s easier and simpler this way but I hate being lonely. I feel the same way. The unpopular person, made unpopular by the actions of other people (a twist on the self-fulfilling prophecy myth) is left holding the bag. I read this kind of stuff over and over again but knowing it does not make the thoughts change. They haven’t called to check on me. There is someone out there for everybody. You are loved. I always have negative thoughts and visions and always imagine the worse. I love Monet, libraries, science, and all of the other cool things that you mentioned. Wow…and I thought I was possesed or that I had a sign on my back that warned others to stay away from me! We may even achieve the outcome our critical inner voice warned us about, feeling isolated or finding it difficult to connect with others. I hate it here. I try hard meeting people, I try hard pleasing people. Step One: Get to know what your inner critic is telling you, Watch Now: Learn about the psychological roots of loneliness Overcome the critical inner voice that perpetuates feelings of isolation Challenge the psychological defenses that limit…. For example, if I have always though I am worthless and stupid and nobody likes to talk to me… then in social situation, those thoughts are suffocating my ability to have a positive interaction. I bought kinect for me and my gf for her weight issue etc and she still whinges about weight but if it’s my problem I’m apparently putting it on to her. Which isn’t going to happen because I’m completely miserable. I knew that the next attack would be from my own family. Yes it does. Hans. No matter how others perceive you, your most important job is to figure out how you truly perceive yourself. Have only seen my mom twice in the past 23 yrs & she thinks nothing of it. I talk to my family and that’s it. I’m 32 now but it nvr stopped. Human beings are a social species, and yet, every one of us feels, on some level, like we just don’t fit in with everyone else. Sadly I’ve been feeling “nobody likes me.” since I was a kid. And usually she uses my business as a target for her attacks.. You sound like a great , loving person! Fight your inner voices! People don’t include me either but it’s ok. Because I know someday that people will like me because I’m fun. This can help them sort through where their self-shaming feelings come from and how to challenge them. Awww same here but you will always feel welcome in god’s heart and that’s all you need to talk to you when you feel like that. It has helped me along the way. I do tend to get taken advantage of because I like helping people out. No one wanted to know why I did some things. Even if it’s a complete stranger I just feel like they don’t like me and are judging me. Men only want beautiful, perfect, pretty, stunning women – women like me, who can only look ok with makeup, don’t stand a chance in hell. I experienced this at a very young age and still exposed to this negative behavior. Start to notice when your thought process shifts and your inner critic starts to invade your mind. They manipulate me by making me promise not to tell but it’s ok for them to break theirs or tell me if I do, it would be my fault for telling. In my twenties and thirties, I discovered my sibling and parents had been on vacations without me. Where do you live now? If people reject you, maybe its a sign of their own insecurities, or maybe they’re farting and scared you will find their stench out. I always think people dislike me or are bored to talk to me and would much rather prefer talking to someone else..if someone does like talking to me extensively, I find it annoying, or think they’re taking advantage of my listening skills. Chemistry tends to happen instantaneously and has a lot to do with physical appeal. Maybe, “I’m lonely” is just something some people say. Sometimes I feel I was meant to be born on another planet in another galaxy, where I fit in perfectly and other people “get me” and like me. my mother has done the exact same thing to me and my son! So what became of this I gave up ever being too close, that’s not to say I’m unfriendly just extremely independent & quite happy in my own company I won’t waste time to take on anymore hurt. So, I choose to avoid them so as to not upset them. The weird this, since I’ve began to meditate, through this imaginary person, they help me to understand myself. BUt i have been there where u r now…U feel like if only ur mind could stop thinking for a while…u pray incessantly for ur thoughts to stop but all in vain…I will just recommend u that start something which u like or u r passionate about. I am very tiered and lonely, don’t know how I need to change myself. Use it every day for the rest of your life. If I never went back to my office again would anyone notice I wasn’t there? What’s a non-stereotypical person to do? It’s not someone physically going out to me and telling me what I am doing ‘wrong’ when I do it, and what to do instead. Hot, and fun. No one checks on me. You don’t add anything. If you do turn to the mental health system for that help they will just further alienate you with mental health labels, medications that cause horrible side effects, and treating you at a distance with strict boundaries and callousness. As Amy Poehler put it “Sticking up for ourselves in the same way we would one of our friends is a hard but satisfying thing to do. Accepting yourself as normal human who like to be part of human community, there is no shame in showing interests, even when it misfires. By the way some of the best stuff achieved happens when one goes alone whilst the ‘cost’ can be bitter sweet but even in the quiet or loud of deliverance is more of a keeper. Trying to change the thoughts just does not work because deep inside you know you are just going through the motions. I feel alone even when I’m surrounded by people…. You’re probably socially awkward in some way. Sometimes it works. Spread joy and kindness everywhere you go and nobody will be able to forget about you. Yes I’m one in that category. “I’m so boring. I do meet with a therapist but I even have this voice when talking to her, it tells me that she won’t understand and that she will think im making it up just to get medicine or something. Because of ankle back & knee cronich problems they say wanting to go places with them is selfish they say I only want to go to make them feel bad when l only want to go to be involved?in other words I meen nothing to my wife and kids or anyone else in the family we used to have so much fun before i had so many problems at age 50 im no good to anyone anymore? I am a lonely person and I don’t have family members or relatives. How can you even pretend to know psychology when you just invalidated the actual reality of many, many people? Maybe the people that attract many other people, attract the shallow people, and maybe it is hard for us to find many solid, close people, because we are deep, we value true friendship, respect thoughts, and feelings, of others including our own. Nothing is for sure. Trust me, I’m going through it too. All my extended family are dead apart from a few distant cousins who are strangers. I’m pretty shy so people seem to not be interested in getting to know me. I too noticed that some people who no one likes because of bad behavior are included. You are not alone. Everybody was impressed and happy but still my brother was the smart one even though he didn’t finish his college and opened his own business. Is it because I don’t deserve or there is something wrong with me. Thank you for pointing that out. Bogart and Bacall: The Greatest Love Story Ever Told. I feel like people tend to seek friendship with other who have a crowd around them. Im quite shy around people idk so that makes it hard for me to make friends. In eros love, there is the additional component of chemistry. I’ve been there but it didn’t stop with just one person. What do I do about the neighbors as well as her? I thought this was my unique experience. It hurts deeply! Then I have others telling me that they didn’t think my father reported me they said yeah he knew but it had to be someone else or I need to forgive & get peace & try to have a relationship with my father that I wasn’t close to either of my parents but I felt like I was being told it was me not my parents or anyone else. I feel traumatised by people at this point and would rather be alone . I do have various sensory disabilities so folk just nix even the educational psychologist said I was a social isolate at 8 years old with few friends with a very low sense of belonging & unfortunately this pattern has remained whilst opportunities are not a given. even though they’re rare. Thanks again. This is a perception. Make no mistake…there are really mean people in this world that can really mess with your head, and these types travel in groups. do be because im sure everyone you know loves you! No matter what your inner critic is telling you or using to reinforce its arguments that you’re different or unworthy, you can find ways to access the strength to calmly quiet this destructive coaching and be persistent in moving toward your goals. That is normal. Makeup is my mask. :)), Where and how do you find no friends? If I start a FB page for us Lonely Hearts I’ll invite you and the others. Im just a big fat ugly person, my friend told me to ask someone out, but I got rejected, because Im ugly. How do you get over this voice when you have generalized anxiety disorder because I have tried but it leads to anxiety attacks. I hope I can continue to silence the harsh voice and get to know who I am without it. A throw-away age that also includes people. There were people in my life I have helped, I have been listening to their problems, I was trying to be supportive, I have feed them with jokes and funny stories and interesting facts and they were laughing and they were interested in what I say, and they looked like they have a good time around me but still, they just won’t ever text me, never invite me anywhere, never initiate anything, like they forgot about my existence at the moment a came out of their sight. I have a cousin who outwardly fights with other family, always putting in her 2 cents, completely treats people like crap yet she’s always invited and I’m not. I feel so alone but I feel like if I talk about it then people will feel like Their dragging me around just having to handle me without wanting to help. There is nothing in my life that gives me back something. Sorry you so lonely , xx Kim. It makes me feel even more unloved. There are a lot of people around me and I can get them like me if I want to. Single women tend to live longer than single men. Feeling unloved and rejected is very real in my life and I have the proof, how can you ever change that with just words. I feel guilty for existing and my last close friends are moving on and I get less important as time is passing by. Here, you can access the video recording and all resources from the webinar "Understanding Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment" with Dr. Has anyone ever told you that you are too sensitive or too emotional? Oh I didn’t see you there you scared me! I work full time and even though my manager and team mates always praise me I feel excluded and different and the more lonely I become the more difficult I find it to talk to people. I found out that I wasn’t missing any special nugget of information and that I was actually socially competent, I just wasn’t in the right group *all along*. Friends don’t need to have same interests as you—As long as they have same life values as you. The critical inner voice strongly influences feelings of isolation, loneliness and social anxiety, a subject you can learn more about here. Lounik, try to get away from having to lie. You’re infringing on social rules that most people pick up as children/teens. There are lots of people who gravitate toward each other for reasons that may be mysterious even to themselves. I have many qualities that many people would appreciate and like.” Don’t listen to the undermining criticisms that come up as you complete this exercise. Your comment hit home with me because I also was bullied in school and my older brother also joined in. Life shows you the reality. Why when I’m in a bad mood or grumpy or pissed does anyone ask are you ok? Even right now my critical voice says “But you are not like them. It shuts us up in social situations, makes us nervous, so we don’t act like ourselves. It is the hypothalamus in the brain that produces oxytocin in a variety of situations. Bernie this is very interesting, and I’m not going to argue and say you’re wrong. How about you? People who feel lonely tend to view the world differently. Finally, loneliness can actually lead to misremembering. Plus it felt so good to interact with young people who actually cared about my well-being. It sounds like you’re writing about me! The loneliness and worthlessness I feel, is all my own doing; I let myself get this way. Also, if they were so lonely, why didn’t they respond to texts, calls, emails, or mail? I could tell you other stories where my good intentions have been misconstrued and where I have been called selfish and all these events have left me feeling worthless. It’s odd. Maybe because I really am a bad person. I too defend myself and I set boundaries.. I’ve been messed around too much not to. That is the reality of life. Remember when the article talks about the “self-fulfilling prophecy”? I’ve received group and also 1 to 1 counselling, but in both instances, I seem to separate what I’m taught, from situations when I’m away from these sessions. Val. I really am not sure what to do next. You’re better than the problems, but no one wants you to be better. do be because im sure everyone you know loves you! I’m not shy but I’m not obnoxious. But I tell her love God love your self. Is it because I’ve been able to survive this rough awful life alone, do they think I never needed them?!? I am currently Ill with heart disease and have had 2 recent TIA’s. We moved to this house about 3 years ago and have joined 4h’s, youth groups, music lessons, homeschoolers co-op, even baby sitting and nothing sticks! That was almost 20 years ago. Unfortunately it seems that the more you give to a loved one the more they take, the less you ask for the less they give to you. This is an amazing perspective . I’m scared to reach out for help again because more than likely the same thing will happen. Greg, your inner strength Ohh, I'm such a piece of shit Because, if you’re not loved and accepted by the people who claim to care about you, then you have to pretty strong to maintain feelings of self worth, belonging and value. I’ve learned to be alone, and it’s still sometimes a little painful, because when I imagine I have friends, it feels great but it is a thing that I probably cannot have anymore, which bothers me but the idea that I will never have a helicopter bothers me too and I am able to live with it quite comfortably. My father his favorite name for me clumsy child. noticed the older i get the more reassurance i need from family to tell me i’m a nice person. When someone doesn’t make eye contact with us, it says, “See? I’ve been told that people are just to busy to make new friends. great article but doesnt address when nobody actually likes us, I have the same issue. I doubted myself and really believed that I was less valuable than those around me. Critical Inner Voice, Isolation and Loneliness, Self Development, Self-Destructive Behavior By PsychAlive There is perhaps no more painful thought in the world than that of “nobody likes me.” It’s an easy feeling to indulge and dwell on, a terrible go-to self-attack in low moments when we feel isolated, depressed, anxious or insecure. I worthless to others especially the ones that went to college or has an important job & has what seems the life I wanted for myself and kids. Look never give up if nobody likes u All love comprises the glue that connects one person to another. Nobody helps when I get into a fight, Nobody does all my homework at night. Yet, this poor treatment from others seems to be a repeating theme for me. We simply feel it. I’m just not sure if I care or not. I m ugly, useless and stupid. It’s not like I don’t know I’m annoying to be around, I’ve just never been able to isolate and eliminate the annoying part. want to slap my demons away and you can too. I always have to put in so much effort to be noticed. Marlon Wayans Just to be a fly on a wall to see how other people become accepted would be worth all I have. I’m 68 years old and don’t have one person who ever cared about me. Im only noticed when someone tries to use me which is sad depressing. Thank you and God Bless. This article is not accurate. The best GIFs are on GIPHY. Beth same have happened to me I know how hard feels even I am finding solution for this thing? Perhaps there is something unacceptable about me but I have given up trying to understand it and that in itself is liberating! I also perceive that most of the time when I attempt to interact with a group of people that I am always the one no one cares to listen too. I’d not worry too much about my own family especially if do not find anything in you for their disdain or indifference. This is very much my story, too. Annie: I was you. The ancient Greeks had six words for love. No one wants to hear me when I did try to tell. I wish I wasn’t like this, but I suppose how life in general, has impacted on me, I come across as this kind of person. I’ve learned not to hold expectations. I’ve done nothing to hurt her. That was supposed to be who I thought as a friend & who for one visit started to get spiritual counseling to let my daughter see that it wasn’t wrong to get help, to let her see I would be willing to do that to help her & me for a relationship. I often have to make the mental note to smile because I do not do it naturally. Agape--Love of G-d, or when the Greeks were pagans, the gods. I don’t use drugs, don’t drink, have never been in any trouble! I’m gonna say though I am proud of what you’ve accomplished & don’t make you feel bad of your accomplishments. Fortunately I’m pretty easily made mildly happy by other things, and lots of things interest me so I am not often bored. I am lonely, went through the guilt of divorce, and have been trying to start over again. Everyone is looking at you. These are known as Toxic people! So, while we may feel alone in thinking “nobody likes me,” we actually have that in common with a staggering number of people in the world. Who does not know someone who deeply loves their pet? I have lived by myself twice and which people and in all my cases this feeling of loneliness never died. That way, other people aren’t fueling my negative self-talk. Just keep looking for one another. My father was the physical one while she would just use mental abuse. Only then can you see the reality of how people REALLY see you. Snobby cliques enpower themselves by ostricising others with talents they themselves don’t have. It’s huge! So, I try to avoid those settings. I think she wishes that it would fail. I don’t find socialising easy, used to ride motorcycles and took up hobbies that didn’t require me to get involved with other people. Feeling picked-on and ignored, Beaver believes his buddy, Richard, who tells him he's reached the age when his parents have stopped loving him because he's awkward and ugly. I could have wrote this with only one exception. I welcome challenges. I know I am shy but I push myself out there. I am nobody…. And now that most single women these days have their very high unrealistic expectations which makes love much more difficult to find for so many of us single guys unfortunately. My ex was one of the most understanding people, but she left me over my problems. its draining and im sick of it. They carried the same nagative values into adult life, the same mental idea that it is okay to tread on other people to remain popular, to reach the top – and that is exactly where they are! Your husband is abusive. You can get that help. My family see me as a problem , now I am at uni , it’s like they want me to stay and never darken their doorstep again , I am doing ver well at uni , but I am so lonely soo lonely , this can’t be normal . I l;earned to live with it to the point I don’t care anymore who likes me and who don’t. Right, forget about the critical inner voice, what about all the critical outer voices?? I’m 31, live at home, don’t drive, and have no job because I’m a neurotic coward. But I am so sensitive that I couldn’t control myself from crying. Wow. In China, men outnumber men to women 115 to 100. Always solitary, always alone , I can’t stand it anymore , glad I found this site , I was in sheer desperation last night . It has been very helpful. With Betty Hutton, Ralph Meeker, Robert Keith, Adele Jergens. I have no idea why people don’t take to me but it is an objective truth, not something I’ve made up in my head. Especially the bit about people more/less rude, smart, boring, shy, selfish etc all seeming to have no difficulty in attracting friends. Humans in a group can be mean to individuals that are perceived as not conforming. The women who are just like me in personality type want a white guy with a big beard and tattoos. It’s built out of any hurtful negative attitudes that we were exposed to in childhood, especially from significant caretakers. But what no one sees is it come at you because you’re stronger than it. I love to laugh with others (not at others). ; The radio commercial states that they sell Operation: Fear Strike T-shirts. I even pray i wasn’t alive. Maybe I’ll feel free of it in heaven. 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